Monday, October 6, 2014

16 Personality Test

 

Dear Zach,

I had stumbled upon a blog and found out this page about personality test. I have done multiple types of personality test and I could say most of it are partially accurate. Having that being said, this page I found is so much precise and 100% accurate as if it’s formulated to read you or something. This page is called http://www.16personalities.com/ . You guys should give it try to see what it says about your personality.

As for mine, I have the rarest type amongst of all 16 personality. I couldn’t help but secretly celebrated inside that I am the rarest type of person in the universe. My personality is INFJ – I’d no idea what the hell it stands for.

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Here’s a short summary copied from the page about this type of personality.

The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they nonetheless leave their mark on the world. As Diplomats (NF), they have an inborn sense of idealism and morality, but what sets them apart is the accompanying Judging (J) trait – INFJs are not idle dreamers, but people capable of taking concrete steps to realize their goals and make a lasting positive impact.

INFJs indeed share a very unique combination of traits: though soft-spoken, they have very strong opinions and will fight tirelessly for an idea they believe in. They are decisive and strong-willed, but will rarely use that energy for personal gain – INFJs will act with creativity, imagination, conviction and sensitivity not to create advantage, but to create balance. Egalitarianism and karma are very attractive ideas to INFJs, and they tend to believe that nothing would help the world so much as using love and compassion to soften the hearts of tyrants.

INFJs find it easy to make connections with others, and have a talent for warm, sensitive language, speaking in human terms, rather than with pure logic and fact. It makes sense that their friends and colleagues will come to think of them as quiet Extroverted types, but they would all do well to remember that INFJs need time alone to decompress and recharge, and to not become too alarmed when they suddenly withdraw. INFJs take great care of other’s feelings, and they expect the favor to be returned – sometimes that means giving them the space they need for a few days.

And there are many more explanatories about your personality as such how strength and weakness, romantic relationship, friendship, workplace, etc to be able to shape you as who you are. Of course, the most importantly I fast-forwarded to romantic relationship to check out what it says about it.

When it comes to romantic relationships, INFJs take the process of finding a partner seriously. Not ones for casual encounters, people with the INFJ personality type instead look for depth and meaning in their relationships. INFJs will take the time necessary to find someone they truly connect with – once they’ve found that someone, their relationships will reach a level of depth and sincerity that most people can only dream of.

Getting to that point can sometimes be a challenge for potential partners, especially if they are the impatient type, as INFJs are often perfectionistic and picky. People with this personality type aren’t easily talked into something they don’t want, and if someone doesn’t pick up on that, it’s a trespass that is unlikely to be forgiven, particularly in the early stages of dating. Even worse is if a suitor tries to resort to manipulation or lying, as INFJs will see right through it, and if there’s anything they have a poor tolerance for in a relationship, it is inauthenticity.

INFJs will go out of their way to seek out people who share their desire for authenticity, and out of their way to avoid those who don’t, especially when looking for a partner. All that being said, INFJs often have the advantage of desirability – they are warm, friendly, caring and insightful, seeing past facades and the obvious to understand others’ thoughts and emotions.

INFJs are enthusiastic in their relationships, and there is a sense of wisdom behind their spontaneity, allowing them to pleasantly surprise their partners again and again. INFJs aren’t afraid to show their love, and they feel it unconditionally, creating a depth to the relationship that can hardly be described in conventional terms. Relationships with INFJs are not for the uncommitted or the shallow.

When it comes to intimacy, INFJs look for a connection that goes beyond the physical, embracing the emotional and even spiritual connection they have with their partner. People with the INFJ personality type are passionate partners, and see intimacy as a way to express their love and to make their partners happy. INFJs cherish not just the act of being in a relationship, but what it means to become one with another person, in mind, body and soul.

Frankly, I didn’t have to speak for myself and they had done the deed for me so good I did not expect that my future life that being visualized for so long in my head had been spoken out. I thought I am the weirdest person of all for not wanting a commitment and always want to be alone for all the time. Simply because I still have not found the right one yet to be spending the rest of my lives with. Relationships with me are not for shallow.

Can’t wait to hear the feedbacks from y’all.

15 comments

  1. I sometimes feel that INFJ people always live in their own world, most of the time. They know what they want and will do all they can to achieve that but rarely will they notice other things if these things were not in the original plan... Not sure I make sense... Lol... Tired liao. Wanna sleep.

    I know another person with that character. Can't really tell what's on this person's mind. Oh well...

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    1. Some one I met recently. Lol... But I got the character wrong by one alphabet. HahahHa...

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  2. mine is a channel! ESPN!! wohoooo! lol..

    ESFP! :)
    Spontaneous, energetic and enthusiastic entertainers - life is never boring around them.

    lol... true ba.

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    1. very well described about you.

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    2. Wahhhh... Me and you (tuls) are almost similar!! Only one alphabet different leh! Hahahaha...

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    3. Describes tuls well, even though I've only met you once :P

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    4. I'm not as bubbly as you are, tuls... Other than that, probably we have almost similar character :)

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    5. Few years back, I was an ISFP, now, retaking the test, I'm an ENFP. I guess people can change, people will change. The only thing that doesn't change is change itself. Lol... (:

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  3. This is a great website -- I found it very interesting. We are close! I am INTJ. Thanks for sharing.

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    1. you are welcome! This is indeed a great website that accurately explain about your personality.

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  4. This is a good test, heard about it before but never done it till now..

    I got ISFJ, Turbulent variant, which describes me very well haha... :P

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  5. I did this before but i forgot what's mine. Maybe it's time to do it again ;-)

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