Dear Zach,
I started to go bald in last November 2024. It was a fairly easy decision to make. I went bald not because I was in support of cancer awareness or whatsoever, it was because I am having vertex hair loss - also known as balding at the crown or male pattern baldness. It all started after I realized my hair starting to become worryingly thin in the end of 2023, I quickly bought Minoxidil and hair-growth shampoo to either prevent the hairloss advancement or regrow my hair.
Fast forward 1 year later, it did not help at all. Every time I went for a cut, when the barber showed the back of my head with the hand-held mirror, I died a little inside. And I was mildly embarrassed. Although the baldness was not as serious as I thought, if this keeps up, sooner or later, it will become worst. The last time I went for a barber cut, I told him to shave it all off. It took some time to getting used to. My late-mum made fun of my shinny bald head saying I could be Shaolin Monk. Ever since then, I have been shaving my head with simple razor shaver in every 2 or 3 days. In fact, some told me I look better in bald. I love my new look every day. I saved up the cost of going to barber, buying shampoo and medication. Now I only use one type body shampoo and wash myself from head to toe.
Just when I thought being bald would devalue myself in the scene of the gay sauna and Grindr, turned out the men are much more into bald man. Not sure if it's their fetish or genuine interest in me, it somehow gives me a newfound confidence that being bald is the new sexy as long as I accept the way I look. Not many men can pull off having a bald look. It takes courageous to shave all your hair off as hair styling significantly dictates your facial look. I am standing at 178cm tall and 83kg now, hence, being bald does pair up well with my body size. Some has asked me if I ever grow my hair back again. And I said "Never."
Bald? This is not the way I envisioned you!! I'm sure you have no fat, so at 83kg you must have a really solid body.
ReplyDeleteThings you least expected always surprise you the most! haha.
DeleteWell, I read that somehow baldness is heavily related to high testosterone in the human body. I highly think that ever since I started taking my workout routine seriously, in terms of training and nutrition, my hair thinning got worst. It could be due to the fact that I do have high T (which makes sense because I am 24/7 horny).
I may have a solid body now but do take note that I also have slightly visible layer of fat around my waist. Since my end goal is to reach 90kg and beyond, the amount of fat will be accumulated slowly as I start gaining by each kg(s).
I am not really worried about gaining fat, it is part of bulking process. In fact, my ass look rounder with it.
Bald is a good look for some guys. I like short hair myself and I'll never have to worry about being bald. I've got a double crown and was told from a very early age that I will never go bald. My hair used to be so much longer when I was a kid. Teenage years I switched to spiking it and now I am buzzing it.
ReplyDeleteBetween my mid to late twenties, I opted for short hair myself too. As I hit 30 plus, I noticed my hair texture changes, hairline going quite far back, and thinning at the crown of my head. IF i were to stand under the light, trust me, you can see through my crown. Hence, I decided to go bald once and for all. I think going bald is hot. Most of the pornstar looks extremely sexy in bald.
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