Wednesday, August 27, 2025

20s into 30s; 30s into 20s

Dear Zach,

When I was in my 20s, I expected myself to hook up with guys at my age - young, dumb, getting together at our age, possibly could be partners in love or in crime. Turned out, I always tend to hook up with men over 30s, sometimes 40s and 50s. Not gonna lie, the accumulative sexual experiences with mature men had shaped me sexually into a full fledge bottom. As they said, your 20s is all about being adventurous in terms of work, life, and sex. My 20s was my best years. I do not regret every minute I spent having sex with random guys to explore my sexual needs and whatnot - in order word, I was a slut. IF you don't spend your 20s having a lot of sexes, are you even living? Just my opinion. Most guys I met were mature - they gave me sense of security and knew what they were doing in bed. As you grow older, you would know what you want out of a partner when comes to sex - you affirm your needs and communicate with your partners so that both of you enjoy what to come next. After all, sex is meant to be enjoyable. I learnt that from them.

Funnily enough, as I am in my 30s now and I thought I would probably meet more men over 30s, turned out most of my hook ups are in their early and mid 20s. My regulars are all age between 21-25. It actually turns me on when a younger guy enjoy fucking me the most as they do to their counterpart. Probably the term "daddy" has been overly sexualized and become a symbol of masculinity for men over 30s, hence, they would rather fuck a sexually experienced man to learn and apprehend rather than fucking a twat in his 20s knows nothing about douching and make a "shitty" mess. The years of sexual experience have given me confidence in becoming who I am and knowing what to do when comes to pleasuring a top. Things I don't enjoy doing I would say no. Some sexual positions I love getting pound in, I would tell them. It is all about open communication. This is how they learn and like when comes to having sex with mature men.

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