Nothing is more infuriating than receiving a text message from Sham but leaving you hanging just like that. The last time we exchanged text was last December. And he was quite monotonous to every text I wrote. After that, we didn't keep in touch. Although he has temporarily transferred his medical practice to KL for 6 months since last November, we have not met up for any occasion yet. Neither both of us initiate for a meet up. Since he lives in the town center, where the traffic is congested and parking spot is limited, he knew me damn well I wouldn't travel all the way to downtown for a "meet up".
Our last sex was quite awkward for both of us. Therefore, I am not surprised he didn't even bother to initiate a meet up while he is in downtown. I guess that was the last straw of trying to win me over. Or, at least, we could catch up with each other lives without having sex.
Fast forward to this morning, I got a text from him. But I didn't reply instantly but waited til later. I was being courteous to him. I did not tell him anything about my current event. If he is interested and intends to keep the conversation flowing, he would have asked more. But he did not. He put a full stop there with a "yep". I did not try to query further because I don't want to be the one who asks all about him.
So he left it there. That's that. It is tell-tale sign that this friendship is dying. Nevertheless, I couldn't be bothered much now. After all, I am perfectly capable being myself without friend.
I don't like text as a method for conversations. Email is okay but I much prefer a phone call or in person meet up. That way you can hear the emotion and you get a better idea of how to respond. Sounds like you pretty well have a handle on that with texts. You friendship might be dying but he could also be one of those people who just pops up from time to time to just say hey and nothing more. Hope your doing well.
ReplyDeleteI don't think I'd read so much into this. Probably he found some other ass and you're old news. Maybe he will become interested in you again. If you were playing with some other guy right now, you might do the same "disinterest" in him.
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